everyone posted their story about the new yahh . me ?
first day of the year : a very interesting , eventful and with some ups and also some downs . butttt i constantly feel tired !
i've been thinking about my previous life . know what , life is a collection of chapters . we constantly , live through those chapters and with time and situations , chapters begin and close . chapters are like episodes which teaches us about life , about ourselves and about those who are also involved in the same chapter . often we find it difficult to close the chapter , because we tend to live in it , but what we don't understand that change is only what is consistent . if the chapter tends to close , it's worth to let it close :) .
said that , end of a chapter doesn't necessarily begins the next one . it's wise to take some time off to realize what's life taught us in that chapter . it's difficult often to accept and live in the phase , where you have been resisting to close a chapter or you have closed it but still in phase of denial .
the key is to move out of that phase and accept things the way they are , not what we always want it to be . if a chapter is inclined to close , it was meant to be so . either we didn't deserve to continue the chapter but mostly , it's the chapter which had to close , so let it close , because only then you can open up a new chapter . in most case , we never revert back to the closed chapters , but sometimes they come back to us , we should just handle them at face value and possibly as a new chapter , without any trail back to the old chapter .
often we think that a new chapter will replace the old one , but that never happens . a new chapter is a new beginning and we shouldn't relate it to the old chapters since the old chapter is closed and hence shouldn't be a part of the new chapter . we should let the old chapter be closed, pick up lessons from it and use it to manage the new forthcoming chapters better .
that's life , and that's how we should bring about or welcome the new chapter of our life .
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